discoursetrans:

reminders…

• not every man is bad. not every boy is bad. destroy the idea that every man is a r*pist or a killer.
• not every woman is a goddess. women can be abusive and manipulative. not every woman is perfect.
• you need dysphoria to be trans. without it, you are cis, which is a-okay.
• along with being cis, being straight is ALSO okay. not every cis and/or straight person is horrible.
• asexuals and aromantics are valid but not inherently lgbt. they cannot reclaim the f slur, the d slur or the q slur.
• the f slur is only for gay men, the t slur is only for transgender people, the d slur is only for lesbians and the q slur is only for anyone that is a gay man, a lesbian, bisexual or transgender. that’s it.
• trans people, gay men, lesbians and people are not your fetish. they never have been and they never will be.
• “aphobia” doesn’t exist. comparing gay people being killed because they were gay to an asexual person being called a plant and saying the latter is worse is homophobic.
• mogais are harmful to the lgbt community.